tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2772383439419086805.post4435908238167145035..comments2024-03-19T22:22:35.751+05:30Comments on I Answer 4 U: Is Your Over Possessive Nature Killing Your Relationship?Penna Sparrowhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16815993207677945371noreply@blogger.comBlogger22125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2772383439419086805.post-39197566658721449392013-10-17T23:41:24.967+05:302013-10-17T23:41:24.967+05:30Came Across This Very Late.
Nice Website, Nice Art...Came Across This Very Late.<br />Nice Website, Nice ArticlesAnonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12530136176717231966noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2772383439419086805.post-45409592256258422362013-04-25T15:07:57.316+05:302013-04-25T15:07:57.316+05:30@Anonymous: It is absolutely normal for you to be ...@Anonymous: It is absolutely normal for you to be jealous of the friend. But it is also evident that your boyfriend cares more for you than her, since he has reduced talking to his friend because you don't like it. This is because he understands how you feel. Most guys will just expect you to understand that they have other friends(girls) and feel that there is nothing wrong in it. <br />But Penna Sparrowhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16815993207677945371noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2772383439419086805.post-13534735167481233502013-04-22T16:51:12.752+05:302013-04-22T16:51:12.752+05:30Hi...i am deeply in love with my boyfriend..,he lo...Hi...i am deeply in love with my boyfriend..,he loves me a lot too n cares <br />for me so much...bt the reason why i become low sometimes is he has a <br />friend(girl) n she cares fr him..my bf also cares fr her..at first i was <br />not boadhered about it..bt once infront of me he said to her i care for <br />both of u pepople in the same way...i quarlled with him for that and he <br />stoppedAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2772383439419086805.post-73090816366946359372013-03-14T07:40:55.409+05:302013-03-14T07:40:55.409+05:30You need guy friend's even after having a love...You need guy friend's even after having a lover is just similar to you having female friends even after you have a girlfriend. Its for help and just because Ur in a relationship does not mean you don't need friends anymore. They were a part of you life and they will be a part of you life later also .Bobnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2772383439419086805.post-43892042011077216122013-02-22T01:51:19.413+05:302013-02-22T01:51:19.413+05:30@Arul: it is evident that you care a lot for her a...@Arul: it is evident that you care a lot for her and always want to be there for her. But as you say you don’t love her and she is a friend to you, give her some space. That’s what is necessary in friendship, to be able to talk to your friend anytime you want to and give them anything they need. And giving her the freedom will strengthen your relationship. Maybe there is something bothering her Penna Sparrowhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16815993207677945371noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2772383439419086805.post-47927152353617245192013-02-21T20:58:03.502+05:302013-02-21T20:58:03.502+05:30i had given my partners space,,,she s so possessiv...i had given my partners space,,,she s so possessive i luvd it d most,, she went to a diff city nw,,i feel she is changed,,,wen she din relise my feelings luv n care fr her n the things i do,,i stopped it,,i started hating her things,bt i luv her i dn wanna lose her,,, even she s too good fr me,,, i jus feel so jus as m possessive nw,,,i wis to be back as i was,,, i duno hw to make it out,,, tell Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2772383439419086805.post-1914361213415977232013-02-20T23:41:11.196+05:302013-02-20T23:41:11.196+05:30@Penna Sparrow
Hi...I'm Arul...am going to a...@Penna Sparrow <br /> Hi...I'm Arul...am going to admit that I am guilty of at least all the things you listed..but i don't love her or want her to be my life partner...we are friends....close friends...but I'm over possessive on her... from first wen we become friends we have not stopped texting not even a single day and she would inform me where is she and Wat she is doing, whether ARULhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08045529522515804784noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2772383439419086805.post-39606465148270366822013-02-13T11:32:55.602+05:302013-02-13T11:32:55.602+05:30@Gerard Cox: Yes, that's right. If you really ...@Gerard Cox: Yes, that's right. If you really want the person to be in your life forever and you think that making a change in your behaviour is worth the improvement of your relationship, then go for it. But it can't be done without the understanding of your partner. Let him/her know that you are striving towards a change for the relationship, so that the lost love can be rediscovered. Penna Sparrowhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16815993207677945371noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2772383439419086805.post-15275864163537707262013-02-05T21:44:26.851+05:302013-02-05T21:44:26.851+05:30Hi there all you have to do make up your mind to c...Hi there all you have to do make up your mind to change for a better relationship and take it one step at a time let go the old you just let it go and trust Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05477489035786485371noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2772383439419086805.post-36674461585260180452013-02-04T11:28:45.175+05:302013-02-04T11:28:45.175+05:30@Anonymous: Your partner's over possessiveness...@Anonymous: Your partner's over possessiveness may have made you feel suffocated in the past. However, with time he has understood you and has given you your space, because he trusts you. But now you have started feeling insecure about him, without any reason of doubting. Well a little bit of possessiveness is necessary but do not go overboard with it. You already know the feeling of being Penna Sparrowhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16815993207677945371noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2772383439419086805.post-8314176177005590672013-02-03T15:00:21.249+05:302013-02-03T15:00:21.249+05:30@penna sparrow
Hi, I read your article and found ...@<a href="#c5208394841656199519" rel="nofollow">penna sparrow</a><br /><br />Hi, I read your article and found it very usefull. <br />I am going to admit that I am guilty <br />of atleast 4 of the things you listed, <br />that is checking messages, an <br />Facebook account of my partner, <br />and getting jelouse when he <br />makes a new lady friend or <br />if one of the girls we work with<br Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2772383439419086805.post-52083948416561995192013-01-31T07:57:28.521+05:302013-01-31T07:57:28.521+05:30Thank you so much..
I have to change myself a lot ...Thank you so much..<br />I have to change myself a lot to keep the relationship.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2772383439419086805.post-75595163365346445032013-01-29T11:05:24.965+05:302013-01-29T11:05:24.965+05:30@Anonymous: Yeah it is weird when people come up w...@Anonymous: Yeah it is weird when people come up with such theories. It can be really annoying and frustrating when they don't understand what you're feeling. So make sure that he knows exactly how you feel. If he still doesn't want to understand, let him be.<br />This can be because either he doesn't know the feeling or doesn't really <i>care</i> about knowing what you are Penna Sparrowhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16815993207677945371noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2772383439419086805.post-1277204736271682742013-01-28T11:29:44.322+05:302013-01-28T11:29:44.322+05:30@Penna Sparrow thanks since the day he told me im ...@<a href="#c1899251694995093528" rel="nofollow">Penna Sparrow</a> thanks since the day he told me im over possesive iv e given him his space.i stil dont understand Its funny hw r.ship wrks... Wen u gve too much love n care dey say ur overpossessive..wen u finally stop showing ur luv n.care &start hiding ur feelings .. twrds dat persn .dan dey say u found someone else... ? <br /><br />Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2772383439419086805.post-18992516949950935282013-01-27T17:35:14.625+05:302013-01-27T17:35:14.625+05:30@Anonymous: It is normal for you to ask more about...@Anonymous: It is normal for you to ask more about his daily life. But the reason for his getting irritated with this behaviour could be many. Maybe he is having some issues that you are unaware of. If this is the case, then just be there for him like a pillar of strength and be patient for time to take care of it.<br />A second possibility is that he may get irritated with you when you try too Penna Sparrowhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16815993207677945371noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2772383439419086805.post-57561186032224184302013-01-26T16:07:22.023+05:302013-01-26T16:07:22.023+05:30Hi, I agree with you, over possesiveness is a very...Hi, I agree with you, over possesiveness is a very corrosive emotion in a relationship. I believe it has different effects on both sides of the relationship. For instance an over possessive man would generally make a woman feel trapped and manipulated to comply, as women generally have an innate desire to please the man or submit. On the otherside when a woman is this way towards a man it just Greghttp://www.howtoreadamanreview.orgnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2772383439419086805.post-91942975080047984822013-01-26T04:32:52.268+05:302013-01-26T04:32:52.268+05:30IM in long distance relationship .. and my partner...IM in long distance relationship .. and my partner thinks im over possessive about him. now days his lying and withholding some information back like what he does etc. All im doing is jus asking simple questions thats it nothing else. if i ws physically near him i wouldnt have asked him.. i ask because we live in 2different countries???if i ask him too many questions he gets pissed. And when he Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2772383439419086805.post-77026413187885053482013-01-21T20:59:10.740+05:302013-01-21T20:59:10.740+05:30wow thank you so much... this article has really h...wow thank you so much... this article has really helped me understanding my gf.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2772383439419086805.post-66209324145998588522012-12-26T17:29:57.743+05:302012-12-26T17:29:57.743+05:30@Anonymous: Well there will be certain times when ...@Anonymous: Well there will be certain times when you will feel that way and it is NORMAL(Only when it is sometimes, not always). But at the same time you have to understand that there is no need to feel insecure about it. Her merely talking to another guy shouldn't be a reason for you to worry. Ask yourself, how would you feel if she starts doing the same with you. Wouldn't you think shePenna Sparrowhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16815993207677945371noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2772383439419086805.post-15940739264533843712012-12-25T16:35:36.308+05:302012-12-25T16:35:36.308+05:30well i also came to his place seeking answers
i a...well i also came to his place seeking answers<br /><br />i am very over possesive... and my girl really cries everyday now but i just hate any guy talking to her<br /><br />i dont know why you need guy friends when you have lover..<br /><br />hmm i am really sad to see her cry.. but at same time i am unable to change myself.. i tried.. but when it comes to her talking to other guy, it is really Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2772383439419086805.post-55070291017016662862012-08-07T23:59:27.420+05:302012-08-07T23:59:27.420+05:30@Jeff
Well sort out the issue. Theres no other way...@<a href="#c2745924462434623176" rel="nofollow">Jeff</a><br />Well sort out the issue. Theres no other way out. Even if your partner did cheat, try to know his true feelings for you PRESENTLY. Theres no point dwelling in the past. <br />It may require a li'l more effort than you think it does but trust me, its worth the effort if its true love.<br />All the best :)Penna Sparrowhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16815993207677945371noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2772383439419086805.post-27459244624346231762012-08-07T19:55:38.714+05:302012-08-07T19:55:38.714+05:30Ohh my! I am really possessive and I hope I can wo...Ohh my! I am really possessive and I hope I can work this out and be someone that who can trust my partner. We usually quarrel because I usually accused him of cheating on me.Jeffhttp://1031investmentopportunity.comnoreply@blogger.com